Saints and Angels

As I was listening to a song recently, I heard the phrase “saints and angels” in the lyrics. My thoughts started drifting as I considered how these words can apply to us here and now.

Our human nature is infused with the desire to be saints and angels as we relate to others. We are wired with the capacities for internal moral strength (saint) and extending compassionate kindness to others (angel).

Although it may not typically be our constant state of being, (the flaws of our humanity frequently get in the way), these dimensions are deeply rooted in us.

As we journey through relational conflicts, there is a strong pull for us to ignore these callings and be self-absorbed with our own interests and needs. However, meaningful resolution eludes us until we make the other person’s desires and feelings integral elements of what we consider.

As you think about the possibility of courageously facing a difficult relational situation (and not avoiding it), know that your effectiveness in anything you do is directly correlated to your knowledge of all the good things that are in you – not only the skills you possess, but your heart’s capacities as well.

Recognize the saint and angel within you. Allow them to play their role in helping you bring about the outcomes you desire. You have the ability to triumph with compassionate strength.

 Sometimes it's just a matter of turning the key.            

DrK

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