Conflict and Avoidance (There's Really No Escape)

Well, here we are! 9 days in to a brand new year! All sorts of things run through my mind when I think about that -- yours too, I'd imagine.

Typically, its resolution time, but in recent years, I’ve noticed another trend. People are coming up with their word for the year, or their theme for the year – something that gives them steady guidance as they tackle another segment of life. It's a concept that appeals to me.

When it comes to interpersonal conflict, one of the behaviors we all consistently share is avoidance. There’s just something about having to face another person when things are not well between us that makes us run in the other direction. (Come on, I know I’m not the only one who’s ducked into a grocery store aisle to dodge an awkward conversation!)

We try to steer clear of any situation that might have even the scent of conflict.

So, for 2017 (or, at least as long as I can figure it out) our blog post theme is going to be “Stepping Into The Conflict” (you know I can hear you moaning).

As a conflict coach, it’s my job to help you move from Place A to Place B – to not let you be satisfied with where you are, or complacently stay there. I’m here to point out that what you’re currently doing is actually not working for you.

The reality is that you will never completely avoid the conflict. Sooner or later, you will have to face it.

So, why not be ready?  . . . No, why not be good at it?

Remember, you are capable of more than you think. It’s time to do an about-face and head right into the wind!

Happy 2017!

DrK

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