Conflict and Grace (It's Stronger Than You Think)

How many times have you hurt someone, or your actions angered them, and you truly just made a regrettable mistake that you wished you could erase? Didn’t you long for them to show you mercy and allow you to quickly make it right?

These are the instances you have to remember when someone else in your life offends you in this way. Remember how it was for you and extend grace to them.

Let Grace Fall Like Rain

Contrary to what you might believe (that this would be a sign of weakness), choosing to grant grace comes from a place of strength and security. It is a power that belongs only to you. When you realize you are in a position to give grace to another person – and you do – you use this power for good.

As you grant grace (and maybe mercy) to the one with whom you are in conflict, you interject gentleness into the situation, and you enable that person to lower their defenses.

It is a powerful act.

Do it when you can.

Make a clear decision to give grace this week – even if it’s only to the out-of-state driver who cuts in front of you. Allow yourself to experience the power that comes from this act of kindness.

DrK

P.S. And be sure to let yourself off the hook when you’re the one who needs the grace – being human definitely has its tough moments!

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